There is a common phrase that most people have heard "Behind every successful man there is a woman" and so is this "Behind every successful woman there is a progressive man". He can be either her father, brother, or husband who supports her in her difficult times and lets her fly independently without caring about random thoughts or judgments of society.
When a man supports a woman then it does not mean that she is weak, she cannot make it on her own, it simply means that he is with her hand in hand. There can be two perspectives of seeing a man behind a woman. One is that the man thinks that the woman needs protection so they stand behind her being a protective shield. Another is man think that women are not weak, they do not need protection, and they have been given an equal chance to show up, so they stand behind her as a supportive character.
A woman can do anything if she believes in herself, she doesn't need a man, but having a man as a support is a blessing. Men usually believe that their woman can achieve higher goals in her life, she just needs a man who does not care about society and their norms which leads women to be restricted from living their lives in her way. A supportive and encouraging man does not know about any limit to pulling her woman back, he only knows spirit to work.
Alpha male
There is a new conception arrived regarding this word, Alpha male. It is given to males who are macho, bold, and high-toned but are also disrespectful towards women, hurt their dignity, and abuse them. They think that women are the shoes of their feet and degrade them disrespect them, don't behave humbly, and treat them as objects for their pleasure. They consider themselves Alpha males and think that they are smart and strong but the reality is they are weak, weak enough to tolerate, weak enough to respect, weak enough to help, weak enough to support, weak enough to appreciate, and weak enough to love. They are not real men, they pursue fake personalities and show off them.
Real Alpha male
Real men can support, appreciate, stand for, respect, and love women without hurting their dignity. They believe in the equation of equality for both and stand beside her to support her in every possible manner. Treating women as a human not as an object whom they love and respect because they deserve it not because of their pleasure. They consider the decision of women as equal to that of men and believe in their strength and courage. They believe in the fact that Women have the right to be independent, and financially capable, pursue their dreams, achieve their goals, live a joyful and respectful life, and stand beside them in every situation with all their support and efforts. This kind of personality refers to a real Alpha male who does not believe in women's dreams but also encourages her to turn them into reality.
Encourage women to grow
Women do not know that they have the capability and capacity to do a lot of things that they think are impossible, they are unaware of their power, strength, and abilities. They need to be encouraged and appreciated for their work and men can do this perfectly if they want to support a woman then no power or problem can stop them from supporting their woman. They protect her from every obstacle and even teach them how to fight for your rights and tackle such problems or hurdles. They teach them to cross all hurdles with immense patience and acknowledgment and tell them to have courage in themselves and not consider themselves less than anyone else.
Be brave enough to get the wrong side down, put in effort, and don't bend down in front of wrong, always fight bravely and do not fear while fighting just think that wrong can never be so big that it can result in the downfall of right. You just need to believe in yourself and push your boundaries because the world is not going to let you a smooth way towards your goals, there are obstacles on every path but you do not need to restrain yourself from fulfilling your dreams, you have to be ready for every situation.
Men should also tell their women that they are with them in every situation but not depend on them for everything, go and find yourself a way, to fulfill your dreams too, you are capable enough to hold any situation bravely and figure out a solution that goes to your achievement path. Society will always degrade you, pull you down, not believe in your abilities say a lot of wrong words, and put a lot of questions on you but you only need to be fearless and unstoppable. This kind of word can help a woman to motivate herself and take steps that lead to her growth. A supportive man can become a woman's strength which not only motivates her but also stands by her to not let her fall.
A supportive man: a blessing for a woman
Support of a man can help a lot for a woman to make her aware of her capabilities, abilities, and strength. A supportive and progressive man not only lets her know about her strengths but also tells her about her weaknesses and gives ways to improve them to turn them into strengths.
Those men who possess this kind of personality are a blessing to women, they mean a lot to the woman who has them. Men should not have to leave a woman at her worst, they must have patience and possess faith in her, making her into an unstoppable woman rather than leaving her behind and searching for another better one, they should think like this but unfortunately, many men do opposite of this and leave the woman in her worst to suffer alone and consider themselves as strong rather than making that woman strong but those who supports her and not leave her in her worst are a blessing for women.
A Dynamiclady ~ Anshika Rajput
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